Lilian Ajayi is a serial entrepreneur. A simple person who loves God and loves to empower people. She is eclectic, kind, loving, passionate, compassionate, dogged, focused, smartworking, and multi talented. She loves to spread the love of God. Roman's 13:8.
What is the experience like being a female lawyer?
I am thankful I am a lawyer today. I didn't want to be one though. I am a Science person. I dreamt of being a Computer Scientist all my life. I guess God had better plans as a legal Practitioner for me. 
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I have had highs, lows and somewhere in between
Have you ever been intimidated by the male lawyers?
Male, females. My petite nature make people under estimate me a lot. At 15 years post call, I was still asked if I had gone to Law school🤣. People only take me seriously after they see me appear in court or working professionally.
What is your growing up like?
Pretty interesting I will say. Meeting different people, mixing with different cultures have been quite a journey for a curious mind like mine.
What is the most challenging problem you have ever faced as a lawyer?
People seeing me as a woman (a small girl because of my looks) and concluding I am not able to handle their cases. Thankfully, I have not lost any case as till date.
Have you ever regretted being a lawyer?
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| Lilian Ajayi |
Yes, when I saw a lot of unscrupulous dealings in the society. It aches my soul. Heartbreaking. We really don't need to lie, cheat, steal to become rich. No, we don't.
How can you describe your typical day?
Productively busy. I try to make fun, so it is not like I am working endlessly.
How do you describe success?
Success is being positioned to empower those around you.
Do you believe there is a pattern or formula for success? Yes. Success is the product of focused, consistent, determined , smart work. Show up daily. Diversification of income portfolio aids you to success. Genesis 2:10. God gives you the lead by showing us that one stream is never good enough.
What’s your favorite aspect of being a lawyer?
The opportunities it provides to make impact in the lives of others, daily. Priceless!
The issue of rape is becoming worrisome, what is your suggestion on how this can be reduced?
Rape is now a re occurrence as a result of societal decadence. People rape just to win a bet, to be initiated into groups, for rituals, as a result of taking narcotics, etc.
I think the first step is a drastic law against convicted rapists. Maybe the death penalty? It could serve as a deterrent. People (Male and female) should be careful in this day and age, where the world is without boundaries. Social media poses so much threats from people luring others to their destruction.
What are the three skills needed to become a successful lawyer?
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| Lilian Ajayi |
Commitment, ability to research and integrity.
Who or what inspires you?
I look up to God as my source of inspiration through the Bible. I respect men and woman who are genuinely helping the vulnerable.
What part of your life experience would you like to alter if you had the chance?
I may have stalled getting married as at the time I did.
What is your favorite meal and how do you prepare it?
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| corn pudding |
Ekusu( corn pudding). It's like making moi moi but from corn, instead of beans. Yum!!!!!
When you are not working or taking care of business, how do you relax?
I travel to see places, I dance, i sing, I love creative arts, so it relaxes me.
What piece of advice would you like to give to the young graduates or those who wants to be like you?
Be who you would want to meet tomorrow. Be the daughter, son, spouse , business partner etc you would like to have in the future.
Integrity is a priceless commodity, never put a price tag on it.
Thank you for having me.
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